Here is what we really want. I want a dress that it simple and flowing, with green accents. Our flowers are to be red and yellow tulips with Irish heather and Scottish Thistle mixed in. I plan to wear the McNamara tartan sash down the aisle, and I want Justin's grandparents to present me with the Wallace tartan to replace the McNamara one, signifying that they accept me into their family. We want to give the Wallace parents and grandparents special jewelry (undecided on this just yet) that we will present to them at this time as well. Desiree will have a necklace or a ring made that will be a circle and will have our three birthstones in it, signifying our unification as a family. Justin's Highland Kilt is the majority of the cost. The Kilt alone it looking to be around $1000, but it's very important to him that he follow his heritage. We want a secular, outdoor wedding with bagpipes and our reception should be in a place that doesnt have harsh fluorescent lighting (we both get migraines from that). We want to have a specialty cake shaped like a honeybear jar wearing the Wallace tartan and then cereal treats cut into hearts and flowers for our guests to snack on. This is just the basic stuff. The bridesmaids will be wearing red or yellow,